essentialism
The book about essentialism spoke to me in many ways and also made me a little sad and or frustrated because my life consists of
-Teaching full time
-I sit on the School Governance Council (1 meeting a month)
-Working at Macys part time/full time-need the income
-In school-Masters of Ed Leadership
-Taking care of my mother
-Trying to go to gym and be social ( so I can find some to love me and be attractive enough to keep them
-Be social/enjoy life- because I like to have friends and do stuff besides work
And all of this is important, which is why I am not a complete essentialist yet. But it did make me think about this upcoming year and what if any committees, if any, I will commit myself to. Last year, I didn't fully commit to anything, but I as very much the if you need anything I'll help person. And many times they needed something. This year as I add something else ( school) onto my plate I realize that the word no will be my friend. I already unfortunately use it often in my social life due to just being tired, but I rarely used it professionally because I felt I would be overlooked for upward mobility or projects that would benefit my learning and development. But as I read the book more and more I found myself saying keep everything you have and try to drop a few things and assure that everything you do will benefit your overall goals in life. Wish me luck!!!
-Teaching full time
-I sit on the School Governance Council (1 meeting a month)
-Working at Macys part time/full time-need the income
-In school-Masters of Ed Leadership
-Taking care of my mother
-Trying to go to gym and be social ( so I can find some to love me and be attractive enough to keep them
-Be social/enjoy life- because I like to have friends and do stuff besides work
And all of this is important, which is why I am not a complete essentialist yet. But it did make me think about this upcoming year and what if any committees, if any, I will commit myself to. Last year, I didn't fully commit to anything, but I as very much the if you need anything I'll help person. And many times they needed something. This year as I add something else ( school) onto my plate I realize that the word no will be my friend. I already unfortunately use it often in my social life due to just being tired, but I rarely used it professionally because I felt I would be overlooked for upward mobility or projects that would benefit my learning and development. But as I read the book more and more I found myself saying keep everything you have and try to drop a few things and assure that everything you do will benefit your overall goals in life. Wish me luck!!!
"No" is an important word for all of us to learn. You have a full plate and you must find time for you...you as a teacher, you as a person, you as a family member, etc....
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